Kira Wertz
1 min readMar 15, 2023

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I give men the benefit of the doubt if they can hold banter online or in-person for a significant length of time without even talking about sex. But most people who come at me on the apps jump to the chase within a short number of exchanges. I refuse to be an object.
Hell, I swiped left on a guy from FB dating and he decided to find my actual FB profile and DM me with an oddly weird stance of "I'm looking for love and I'd move to be with you." it's like he was oblivious how creepy it was to stalk me online. If I was interested, I'd have swiped right.

Men honestly think they're entitled to a woman s time, attention, and body. Oddly enough, I was blind to this pre-transition. But to think that I probably made women uncomfortable in the same vain as these guys who DM me disgusts me.

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Kira Wertz
Kira Wertz

Written by Kira Wertz

Pansexual, Transgender Truck Driver, public speaker, activist, LGBTQ advocate, Jeeper and periodic author at The Transition Transmission.

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